Very Important

1. Passivity hurts you too much. As a existentialist, or whatever you name your philosophy, you know that the only way won't make you regret is to CHOOSE, PROACTIVELY.
   Try to avoid letting people make decisions for you.
   
2. 憤怒是非常重要的東西，它通常是熱情的前身， 在它蛻變之前，所有的熱情都來自於一股好奇和憤怒。 所以請珍惜你的憤怒，去問問題，也去找答案。 我認為這不但是你們人生最大的收穫， 這也會幫助我們停止不斷去問「到底我們能怎麼做」， 而是「我現在能怎麼做」、或是「任何一件小事情我就去做」。 憤怒其實是非常非常重要的力量。 A great note from Zhang Xuan to an Enneagram No.9.
   Keep an eye on your every single emotion which will be your important guiding light.
   
3. YOU MUST TRUST YOUR OWN JUDGEMENT. Otherwise it must be the beginning of another tragedy. Like that pain you experienced in the past 3 years... Write down your observation even when you can't google similar voices.
   
4. TEARS are come out of TRUTH. Not insanity. They are much much more honest than your mind.
   
5. RESPECT YOURSELF. You deserve it. Your ability deserves to be recognized. You deserve to be loved by someone you love someday. You deserve to be surrounded by nice and intelligent and thoughtful people. You deserve to live the way you like.